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Mindy Lee M. Lipsky

Certified Business Coach
Certified DISC Practitioner




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The House with the Golden Windows

When I was growing up my mother would tell my sister and me many stories.  As an adult and mother to my own kids now, I find myself remembering and sometimes retelling the stories I once loved to have told to me.  One of my favorites was the house with the Golden Windows.  It is a story about perspective and appreciating what you have when you have it.  It can also be about not comparing yourself with others… I found this version of the story online… tell me what you think you can learn from it…


(This is actually a picture of my neighbors window I took to remind me of MY golden windows)

The House with the Golden Windows

     Once upon a time, there was a little girl who lived in a simple, small, and shabby-looking house. When she would be outside playing in the yard, she often glanced over the fence and across the valley and noticed a large house high on the hill. This house had “golden windows” that glistened every time the sun shone on it and the girl would dream about how lovely it would be to live there instead of in the ordinary house like hers.

      A few years later, when the girl was a little older, her mother gave her permission to ride her bike a little further up the street. She rode up the street, across the valley, and up the hill until she reached the house, with the golden windows, that she always admired from the distance.

     As she dismounted from her bike, gazing at the house, she was a bit disappointed in what she saw up close. The house was abandoned and dilapidated. The front yard was surrounded by weeds taller than her and the “golden windows” were actually plain and dirty, reflecting only the neglect of the house.

     Feeling so sad, she didn’t go any further. Heartbroken over the false illusion of her dream house, she mounted her bike and headed back to her house. As she glanced up, ahead of her in the distance, there was a sight that really amazed her. Across the valley on her side of the valley was a little house and the windows glistened just as golden as the house she was just leaving. It was the sun shining on her little house.

     It was then that she realized, she had been living in her “golden house” that she always dreamed of from afar. But her house was filled with love and care. It wasn’t abandoned like the house she often dreamed of someday having. Instead, everything she dreamed of was right there in front of her. In reality… she WAS living her dream!

MORAL: Things aren’t always greener on the other side. The way we view things aren’t always how they really are. We need to appreciate the things we are given and make the most of it.

We often compare ourselves and/or our businesses to others.  We are often comparing apples to oranges or our own challenges/weaknesses to other’s strengths.  When they look at us… they see the golden window too!  In the summer months when things tend to slow down and become more relaxed it gives us time to criticize and compare.  I challenge you to instead revisit and reevaluate what you are doing.  What is working?  What isn’t working?  Take the time to live in the moment, dream, create, and change things up. Ask someone you trust to tell you what they think of your business or what you are doing right in your life.  Then remind yourself that you ALREADY have golden windows!  How will you let your golden windows shine??

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